Moment of Truth.

Make or break.

Have you ever had one of those moments where something is going to going extremely one way, or extremely the other? A life changing moment and you don't know how things are going to turn out?

If it goes one way it's life changing but if it goes the other way, it means your life goes back to normal without a second thought - although it is a second thought, and a third and fourth, because you can't forget it. It's the sort of decision - or event - that you think "what if" about. But "what if" is never going to change anything. Life goes back to normal, boring normal, back to when you wished something would change.


The moment of truth - make or break - yes or no - happy or sad. It's the moment of truth. Waiting for an answer. But how do you know how truthful the moment is? How are you possibly to know whether the person is telling you the truth, or whether they're just playing games with you and pulling you along for the ride? How do you know they're not going to turn around in a couple of days, weeks, even months and say they've changed their mind, or they made a mistake?
This all comes back to understanding people. Knowing them. Trusting them.
But that's not as easy as it sounds.

How are you ever to know? Well, I suppose you never do know unless you go for it and find out. You have to decide whether it's worth risking. Worth jumping for and not knowing whether the other side is going to be a hard or soft landing.
I believe you should take the risk - it's better to regret something you did that regret something you didn't do, for you would forever been thinking "what if" and that is a feeling I would rather not have too often.


People are so indecisive and confusing. How are you to know when you can trust someone and when you can't? When someone is two faced and someone isn't? Maybe I shouldn't say that - for that is very negative thinking.
Although I may think people are confusing, people may think I am confusing. It is a two way street and I know I should never neglect that fact while trying to figure someone out.


This is it. The moment of truth. Give me truth, I pray. I wait "patiently" - and I will take the risk, for the risk shows your feelings and your truth. Maybe that is what they are looking for too, just as you are.
The future can always change.
The only people who can make that change is you.




If you are thinking about something, hoping and wishing for something, the chances are it's worth risking your feelings for.
Take a chance. Think about the consequences and every possible outcome, but try anyway. You'll learn something, either way.
You never know what might happen.

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