To Tell Or Not To Tell?

That is the question.

I've been busy busy busy this week and I've not really been online much so I haven't been able to talk to a certain someone. He doesn't know that I have a thing for him, or that I love getting comments and messages off him. But after coming home from an wonderful trip to London (we went to see Wicked - go and see it, it is absolutely amazing!), I came home to find that he hadn't replied even though he had been on. That is the moment you realise that they aren't interested so you just just forget it as you're wasting your time, energy and emotion on someone who isn't going to give you anything in return.

But besides all of that, what if you didn't know? Because sometimes it's impossible to tell whether someone is interested or not. I know when you're young it's "my friend fancies you..." and when you're a teenager, " you're fit..." But after that, it's not as simple as "I like you" or "I'm not interested". Love, lust and growth come into it. You can grow to like and love someone, right? That's what I hear, what the movies tell us.

Back to the point, if you don't know and you'd like to find out, how do you do that? Flirt? Just wait and see? Or do you think that you've got nothing to lose, just go for it and tell them? What is there to lose, a friendship? If a frienship is strong enough then it'll be able to get over it if the feeling is mutual. And if the feeling is mutual? Then life becomes perfect. You are able to say that you are "happy in love".
Is it alright for girls to make the first move now? I know most of us would rather have the lad make the first move, but what if they don't want to? I saw a statistic that said something like 86% of men would rather the girl made the first move. I don't know whether that's true butI don't see what anyone had to lose by making the first move, boy or girl. It's just a bit nerve racking.

I'm allowed to say all of this, I've made the first move a few times, told a person that I liked them. Never has it gone the way I wanted, but I won't give up and stop trying. Although I don't think I'll be telling my current interests seeing as I already know that they'd probably just blow me off.


I've always wanted to be talking to someone I like and if I didn't know how they felt (or I did know they liked me), just to kiss them. I'd love to see the reaction. Whether it was a good or bad reaction, it would be such a nice thing to be able to say "I did it" for, even if your friendship was never the same again.


"Don't leave me hanging here 'cause this girl has fallen stupid for you."

Go for it. What do you have to lose?
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