Spontaneity.

Some of the best nights I've ever had have been completely spontaneous, random and really funny.
This blog is just basically writing down a memory, so that I don't forget the insignificant details.

First though, being spontaneous is so great because you never know what to expect and if it turns out bad it doesn't matter. If it turns out good, well that's just great.
All the best 'meet cutes' and major events in films, in books, in life itself are random and spontaneous. Are films and books or love stories reflections and ideas that could happen in real life? However unlikely, they could happen. Even though they would be completely random and at a time you would never expect - and probably with someone you'd never expect - they could happen.


Wednesday night was one of those nights. A night of laughing with just a small group of people, two best friends and some others I hardly knew. Whats more, they stayed with us. Thats really weird - not something that would be encouraged, but it was so good and it didn't even matter.
You get to know the real person, the true personality of someone when you are put in a situation where they have no time to think about how they're going to act or what they're going to say.


"Oooo." *Puts lipstick on*.
Ghost stories.
Getting terrified.
Walking her down stairs.
Her and her sister turning up again just to hear the stories.
Scary Mother.
Good music.
Singing.
'In The Ghetto' and 'Sweet Caroline'.
Talking for hours and laughing.
Starting to drink at 3 am...
Hitting herself with the electric bottle opener. (The funniest thing all night! Aha!)
Going to the toilet.
Red wine.
Red wine and lemonade.
Being too hot.
Stripping.
Going to the main road in underwear.
Stripping.
Going to the island and dancing.
Stripping.
The photos.
Swapping jeans.
Going to the other main road.
The police.
Strange sleeping arrangements.
Swapping beds.
"Can I talk to you?"
Swapping beds again.
Going to sleep at about 6 am.
Waking up early - but later that normal.
Leaving to go back to bed.
Tidying up.
The really weird photos. (They're really scary.)
The pen. (It didn't work the first time.)
The laugh about it afterwards.




Give yourself a chance.
Give life a chance.
Give spontaneity a chance.
You won't regret it. I promise.

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